希望不要这样用英语可以用 "I hope it doesn't come to that" 来表达。

这个表达方式来源于英语中常用的一种语气词 "come to",它表示一件事情或情况到达某个地步,或者一件事情最终的结果。例如:

I hope it doesn't come to that. (我希望不会到这一步。)
I'll do everything I can to make sure it doesn't come to that. (我会尽我所能确保不会到这一步。)
It's a last resort, and I hope it doesn't come to that. (这是最后的手段,我希望不会用到。)

"Come to" 还可以用来表示达成某种状态或共识:

After a long discussion, we finally came to an agreement. (经过长时间讨论,我们终于达成共识。)
She was tired, but eventually came to accept the fact that she had to do it. (她很疲惫,但最终接受了必须做这件事的事实。)